How to do fingering: Step by step guide on how to finger yourself to orgasm

Female Masturbation

Before you have sex with your boyfriend or husband you should learn how to finger. It helps you to find the pleasure point and you can also aware of what you want from sex.

Learning how to do fingering or how to finger yourself is quite difficult for most of the Indian women. But don’t worry we are here to help you. Just follow these simple techniques while having the fingering masturbation.

What is finger masturbation or fingering masturbation?

What is finger masturbation or fingering masturbationDo you know about the finger masturbation or fingering masturbation? It is a simple method of stimulating yourself. As its name suggests, it is a method of masturbating with fingers instead of using any types of a dildo or any other sex toys. Most of the Indian women who start masturbate or who masturbate for the first time, start with the finger masturbation.

Fingering masturbation does not need any types of sex toys so you can easily perform the fingering masturbation anywhere. For example – the women who live with their family can perform the fingering masturbation in the bath, public toilet etc.

The technique for how to do fingering

Most of the women live fingering masturbation and enjoy it very much. If you also want to experience the feeling of the fingering masturbation then follow these techniques for best results.

There are many techniques which help you to improve your fingering masturbation. If you are completely new then these techniques help you to know how to do fingering or how to finger yourself.

Get relax

Get relaxRelaxation is very important. Most of the women feel nervous at the time when they start learning how to finger or how to do fingering because they don’t have much knowledge about fingering masturbation and this is perfectly natural.

Most of the women also get frustrated because they put pressure on themselves to reach the orgasm. So, getting relaxed is very important.

Once you decide to have fingering masturbation then the first step is to get relax. You can do anything which makes you relax.

Use good quality sex lube

Use good quality sex lubeIt does not matter whether you used the dildo sex toys or not for your fingering masturbation session. The important thing is to use good quality sex lubricant. You should add the good quality sex lubricant to increase the sensitivity.

During fingering masturbation, you can apply the sex lube to your nipple, clitoris, vagina etc. to feel comfortable.

There is various type of sex lubricant is available. You can prefer anyone which you like most.

For example – If you want to add some temperature play in your fingering masturbation session then prefer warming or cooling lube.

Start with the nipple stimulation

Start with the nipple stimulationIf you are in the learning how to do fingering or how to finger yourself then let me clear you that never start directly with inserting the finger into the vagina. Women should always start stimulating with the nipple.

Many women do not touch the clitoris directly for then stating with the nipple stimulation is the best idea.

First, start stimulating the nipple from the top of your cloths. Then remove the cloths and apply sex lube. Move the palm up and down at high speed, draw a circle, and pinch. The nipple gets erect at the time when you start feeling better. Crush the erected nipple with your finger. You really feel pleasant.

Move to the clitoris stimulation

Move to the clitoris stimulationAt the time when you feel that you get wet then move to the clitoris stimulation. The clitoris is the very small erogenous zone and most of the women easily reach the climax due to the clitoris stimulation.

The women who are learning how to do fingering or how to finger a pussy can stimulate the clitoris with their finger because it is easier to get pleasure than the vagina.

Apply the lube on the tip of your middle finger and gently touch the clitoris. Use your finger to move the clitoris up and down gently. At the time when you feels good to increase the speed of your finger movement.

Now try to stimulate your clitoris with two fingers. Use your index and middle finger. Move your both the fingers left and right. It is also a good idea to draw a circle using the belly of two fingers and stimulate the clitoris.

Cares pubic hairs

Cares pubic hairsWhile having the fingering masturbation, if women caress their pubic hair with their finger then she will experience the new pleasure that they have never experienced before.

To cares the pubic hair, gently stroke the entire pubic hair like a circle using your fingertips and fingers. After a while, try stroking your pubic hair from the bottom up.

At the time, when you caress your pubic hair with your finger, you will directly touch the clitoris. Scratch the pubic hair around the clitoris and gently touch and stimulate your clitoris.

For this, you can use your both hand. Use your one hand to stimulate the clitoris and the other hand to caress the pubic hair. At the time when it feels good and feels good, keep your rhythm and stimulate your clitoris with your fingers.

Try to insert the finger into the vagina

Try to insert the finger into the vagina

Now, try to insert your middle finger into your vagina. But before inserting the finger deep inside the vagina first stimulate the vagina wall with your finger. Slowly try to insert the middle finger into the vagina.

At the time, when you insert your middle finger till the second joint then try to find the G spot. To find the G spot or to stimulate the G spot to bend your middle finger towards your stomach. You will be able to enjoy the G spot masturbation.

If you have some experience or knowledge about how to do fingering or how to finger yourself or how to finger vagina then the method of inserting into the vagina and stimulating the clitoris at the same time is recommended for you.

You can use your one hand finger to stimulate the G spot and at the same time use tour other hands to stimulate the clitoris. It really provides you the pleasant pleasure. If you want to immerse yourself in the pleasure of finger masturbation, try it.

Don’t change your sex position too much

Don’t change your sex position too muchAt first, it will take some time to figure out which sex position is best for you and which sex positions help you to reach the orgasm when you finger yourself.

At the times, when you are very close to the orgasm than don’t try to change your sex positions.

Whenever you move, it delays your orgasm. In case, if you don’t want to orgasm right away, then you can move or change the sex positions.

Notes on how to finger

Notes on how to fingerNow you know how to do fingering or you can say that how to finger yourself. If you decided to spend some quality time while having the fingering masturbation then here are some notes. Let’s be careful about three things to feel comfortable with fingering masturbation.

Cut your nails and wash your hands

Before involving in the fingering masturbation you ought to cut your nails and apply a file. Let be careful about infections. To prevent from infection make sure that your vagina, clitoris or nipple does not get damage with your nails. If it happens then bacteria can enter and cause infections.

It is also necessary to wash your hands with antiseptic soap or liquid. Since invisible bacteria adhere to the hand, so touching the clitoris or vagina directly increases the risk of infection.

Moisturizes the clitoris and vagina

During the fingering masturbation, it is necessary to moisturize the vagina and clitoris. If the clitoris and vagina are not wet, it hurts you and you feel uncomfortable.

So, while having the fingering masturbation you should apply the good quality sex lubricant.

Slowly insert the finger into the vagina

During the fingering masturbation, try to insert the finger slowly. Women who do not know much about the fingering masturbation may feel pain when they insert their finger vigorously.