Pain during sex – Why woman feel pain in vagina during sex?

04/02/2021Dildo Techniquehealth

Everyone wants a healthy and successful sexual relationship. But sometimes intercourse pain or vaginal pain cause problems in a couple’s sexual relationship. Due to this painful sex, sometimes negative feelings arise between the couples and woman start blaming themself.

But honestly, this is not their fault. Pain during sex is a common problem during sex. Here, in this article, I am going to explain to you in details that why most of the women feel pain while having sex.

Painful sex in woman

painful sex in women

As I told you above that pain in the vagina is a common problem for women.

According to the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, almost 75% of women experience pain during sex at some point in their life.

For some women, this sexual pain is rare or happens only once (while having sex for the first time), but for most of the women, it is persistent.

Due to this reason most of the women stop dating or stop being intimate with their partner. If you are also one then you ought to consult your doctor and try to solve this issue.

Sex isn’t supposed to hurt

Painful sex is a very common problem, but it does not mean that you can accept it as normal.  Sex is not all about to hurt. It is always a pleasurable experience.

What causes painful sex in a woman?

There are many reasons which cause pain while having sex. The most common is the dryness.


Dryness is one of the most common reasons which cause pain while having sex. As you all know that dryness is common in menopausal and post-menopausal women. Along with these, younger women can also experience it.

The best way to overcome this problem is to use sex lubricant. Try using a good quality sex lubricant, if dryness is causing you pain during sex.

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There are many conditions which cause pain during sex.

Vaginal Infections – Vaginal infections are one of the most common infections in all age group women. Bacterial, yeast or sexually transmitted infections can cause pain during sex. Infection also causes the discharge.

Vaginismus – It is also one of the most common problems in women. Vaginismus is a condition in which muscles spasm in the pelvic floor muscles. The women who are suffering from this condition; when try to insert the penis or sex toys like dildo or vibrator into the vagina, it tightens up because of an involuntary contraction of the pelvic floor muscles and it causes pain while having the vaginal sex.

Cervix problem – In this condition, when women insert the penis or dildo into the vagina then it can reach the cervix at maximum penetration. So, cervix problem can cause pain during sex especially during the deep penetration.

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Pelvic floor dysfunction – It is one of the most common conditions in most of the women. The one who is suffering from the “Pelvic floor dysfunction” cannot correctly relax and coordinate the pelvic floor muscles to have a bowel movement. In this condition, if women insert anything in the vagina either penis or sex toys can feel pain.

The best way to overcome this problem is to include the kegel exercise in your daily life. Kegel exercise helps you a lot and it has many benefits also.

Vulvodynia – Now a day, most of the women are suffering from the Vulvodynia. It generally affects the women external sexual organs including labia, clitoris, vaginal opening etc. The one who is suffering from this condition can feel pain or discomfort around the opening of the vagina even while stimulating the clitoris also. This condition lasts for at least 3 months.

Menopause – The one who is suffering from the menopause can feel dryness during sexual intercourse.  The main reason behind this is during menopause, the vaginal lining can lose its normal moisture and become dry.

After surgery or childbirth – If you include in the sexual activity or masturbation just after the childbirth or surgery then you may feel pain. The best way to overcome this problem is just to wait for the 6 weeks after childbirth or surgery.

Don’t suffer in silence; treatments are available

consult with doctor

In India, most of the women suffer is silent. They do not share these problems with anyone sometimes even with their partner also.  So, I just want to say that there is no need to feel shy. These are the most common problem which every woman face in their life at some point.

Some of these female sexual pain required treatment and care whereas some of these problems do not require any treatment, you can easily overcome these problems with time.